Friday, October 3, 2008

how to cope with stubborn teenagers

teenagers this a stage where by they feel they are now adults and can make there own decisions ,they become sturbborn easily annoyed ,do not obey your rules and alots of difficult sttributes.this attimes is caused due to the fact they are undergoing adolescent stage but some its due to psycological problems such as parental divorse or even peer pressure,or when they feel you are givening the other siblings preferential treatment.
The following proceduers are adviceable ways to tame even turn your sturbborn teenager into an adorable one:{1} listen to them:they might be passing a message to you through there behavior be sentitve to them.
{2}dont fuss:must teens do not like the mummy pet attributes ,continious nagging.do not over comlain.
{3}do not embarraze them: at this stage they tend to be over cautions ,so do not insult them through any miss.
{4}do not fight as parents in their presence lest they become violent too
{5}be strict and gentle:let them UNDERSTANDwhy they should not do a particular thing.Dont become a military parent
{avoid their argument please}
But if you sense it is psycological kindly take them for counselling make them realise they are not going to face a judge or police.thanks

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