how to get the man of your dreams

lthere is this believe that as a proper lady you should not ask a guy out,to an extent a feel its true but nothing stops you from asking him indirectly,if you do it directly he might take youy for granted or feel you are cheap but as a lady you still have the right to your feeling of attraction towards a guy its very normal .so whats the way out;(1,venture out ;be nice and loving,even caring if he wants you he will come for you,to add some spice to it try a LITTLE seduction cause some guys can be blind that if you do not hit them on the head they will not get the message,do you get the gists so girls hurry up.but warning do not make your self too